Are you dating online and not meeting the women you crave and would like to meet?
I know what you are going through and it can be a lonely place when you aren’t getting the results you desire. In this situation you have to hang in there and never give up!
One thing about using online dating sites is that whenever you find yourself single, you can be comfortable in the knowledge that it is only a matter of time before you meet someone else. Or just enjoy dating a few different ladies until you do…It’s the most efficient/effective way to date that I’m aware of.
There are Lots of women using online dating sites. This is good news for guys who are healthy single men who do not like hanging out in smoky bars and clubs. There are different ways of building a killer profile on a dating site. The first is,
- Test your replies from what you write in your first and second emails. Save your emails in a file and use the ones that get the most replies as templates. Everyone is unique though.
- You must comment on personal things she has written in her profile. To show you have made the effort to find out something about her. And remember, nothing works 100% of the time. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrh!
I still scratch my head when a profile ignores my interest and I match his criteria, if you’ve been there, you will know how hurtful it is but if you’ve not been there, well I guess you go figure that out…lol.
Now straight to business;
Do you want a killer profile? Listen up; I’m about to reveal one which I’m certain I’ve never revealed before. As I was preparing a new profile name, photo and text to go back online, I decided to make the effort.
The results have been pretty darn good, and I’ve only been back online for four weeks or so! It’s got the type of men I’m interested in meeting, to contact me straight away. No messing about with virtual kisses. They contacted me and sent their mobile number with the email!
Yehaa! I like that.
Are you ready, let’s take a look at it,
Here it is;
Men’s Killer Profile Tip!
When editing or making up your profile, pretend you are a copywriter.
By this I mean imagine you have been paid by a company to write a profile convincing a client to be interested in that company’s goods. So to do that you need to tell the reader this;
‘WHATS IN IT FOR THEM!’
Read profiles of men in your area and age group to scope out the competition. Notice how often they use the word ‘I’ so you will see they are focusing on themselves, instead of the reader. This is good for you, so that your profile will stand out from the crowd.
Instead of writing, ‘I love going to the beach for a swim.’
Write it this way, ‘Do you enjoy going to the beach for a walk and a swim?’
Subtle difference, but it works!
Instead of this, ‘I like to cook.’
Write it, ‘Do you like your man to cook for you while having a glass of wine together.
Get the idea?
So why not edit your profile and delete as many ‘I’ as you can. Or set up a new one on a different site and see the results. You will notice the difference quickly.
Focus on what you think the type of women that interests YOU, would like to read and do. I think you get the picture with this and I won’t bother with endless examples.
This truly is a KILLER tip!
Try it out and good luck to you!
So instead of writing the word “I”, rephrase it and use the word “YOU”. Simple but effective and gets good results. Until next time and more dating tips, keep smiling.
There is always a way to succeed, if you are committed.’